IT’S TIME TO ENJOY LIFE MORE … to smell the flowers, to bask in the sunshine, to soak up the atmosphere, to breathe deeply the freshest of air … to laugh about nothing, to find beauty in contrast, to sense the true essence of others, to relax and remember that the world will keep turning, the birds will keep singing, my heart will keep beating whether I do this now, or not. ~ ER
What you think about me is irrelevant. What I think about MYSELF is everything.
Just because someone reacts strongly or suddenly drops out of my life when I’m feeling really good doesn’t mean I’ve done something wrong … quite the contrary. It can also mean I’ve just stepped up a level and we’re not a vibrational match at the moment.
Being “true to myself” is the most powerful gift I can give to the world. ~ ER
FOUR STRATEGIES THAT BOOST THE ENERGY IN MY RELATIONSHIP
1. I TAKE CARE OF MY OWN NEEDS FIRST … When I’m full of love for life, the people around me are showered with affection, appreciation and praise. I need nothing from them and can give from a totally unconditional place.
“We only NEED something from others when we haven’t been looking after ourselves.” ~ ER
2. I TREAT MYSELF WELL … After studying “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus”, I started practicing BEING OK when a guy takes time out from the relationship (also called “going to his cave”). I make sure I treat my body, mind and soul beautifully all the time, especially while he’s temporarily absent and TRUST he will come back even stronger than before.
3. I OPEN MY HEART BEFORE I OPEN MY MOUTH … After working extensively with the teachings of Abraham Hicks, I now do whatever it takes to get myself into my happy/empowered/centered place BEFORE I start an important conversation, before I make a new decision, before we go out, before making love, before I do almost anything at all.
4. I EXPRESS HOW I’M REALLY FEELING … After many wonderful relationships I’ve found there’s nothing that moves energy quicker than being honest and open about where I’m at emotionally, BUT always with an intention to clear the air, to help myself feel better and NOT make my mate responsible for any of it. ~ ER
IT’S ALL ABOUT ME … When I assume someone else is causing a problem – it’s really me!
When I think someone else should change – it’s really me that needs to change my attitude!
When I focus on what someone else has done wrong – it’s really me who’s focusing in the wrong direction!
When I believe someone’s stopping me from having what I want – it’s really me preventing good things from coming!
Everything starts, continues and ends with the attention I keep giving to it – period! ~ ER
THE BEST GUIDANCE I’ve Ever RECEIVED … has usually come through events that may “seem” at first like tragedies, problems, trauma and unwanted circumstances.
So instead of fighting it, I surrender, step aside and watch the miracles unfold, as God takes divine care of the things that were never my job to try and control in the first place. ~ ER
When YOU really care about yourself, when you know inside the value you have to give, when you are SO sure, SO knowing, SO certain of your own magnificence, whether someone in particular pays attention to you or not, becomes completely irrelevant!
The right people for you are always just around the corner and you’ll bump into each other in the very moment you let go your expectation of WHO it should be, you let go your thoughts about WHAT someone else did to you in the past, you let go your conversations of WHY you deserve better treatment … just let go of that stuff … and trust law of attraction to bring you what you’ve REALLY been wishing for all along! ~ ER
I’m relaxing into a state of Ease & Grace
NO EXPECTATIONS … Just curious anticipation.
NO BIG COMMITMENT … Just “allowing” it to unfold naturally.
NO PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS … Just “accepting” it as it happens.
NO TRYING TO FIX PROBLEMS … Just “opening” to the solutions.
NO DIRECT PLAN OF ATTACK … Just “feeling” the desired outcome.
NO NEED TO CONTROL ANYTHING … Just “choosing” to train my focus.
NO DOUBT ABOUT THE PROCESS … Just “living” another adventure.
NO WORRYING HOW IT WILL HAPPEN … Just “loving” it into being.
I’ve been here waiting for you, believing in you, having faith in you, keeping the light on for you, knowing who you really are and experiencing in real time the magic, the lightness, the uplifting energy, the incredible joy, the heightened ecstasy, the broadest abundance, the deepest appreciation, the vibrant aliveness that IS YOU and which I’m tending to lovingly … until the moment you’re ready to open your heart, your mind and your arms to again receive the fullness of who we are, as One. – My Inner Being
INSTEAD OF EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE TO HELP ME
I decided to stop for a moment,
to take a deep breath,
to feel the love in my own heart …
where help is always waiting,
where peace can be sought,
where stillness is found …
in any moment,
through any crisis,
despite any fear
and in ALL ways.
I take time out, to help myself first. ~ ER